Your Life. Your Choice. Live it!

So I watched “The Lord of the Rings” trilogy again after some time. I think I’ve watched trilogy more than 5 times already and why shouldn’t I? It is one of my favorite movies of all times. I’ve also read the book by J.R.R Tolkien and if there is one quote from the book and of course the movie that have always struck me as absolute, real and something that is undeniable and it states:-

“How do you pick up the threads of an old life? How do you go on, when in your heart you begin to understand there is no going back. There are some things that time can not mend. Some hurts that go too deep... that have taken hold.” - Frodo (The Lord of the Rings – J.R.R Tolkien)

It’s idealistic if not pessimistic. I like it. According to me it tells me I must move on because that is a better option.  But not everyone is like me  because some of us have to learn the hard way and the hard way is better in my opinion because it leaves a long lasting effect on you, it tells you “Get ready to fight me as I’ll soon face you again” and that is exactly the catch, isn’t it? How do you learn to fight another day? Life is indecisive, it is tough, full of misery and we’re not successful most of the time but we try still, hoping we can get back up and just move on. Moving on is a hard part because it is not exactly tangible as we want it to be. It of course is my opinion and the cliché may not be as agreeable as I want it to be but I do believe with all my heart that it is you ALONE that has the sole ability to get out of any doodle you’re currently in. Everyone will keep telling you they’ll be there and yes ‘some’ will come to help but not everyone is like those ‘few’ but generally you’ll end up alone having to deal with you’re problem and I think that is brilliant because in a way, it gives you a head start on what Life actually is, what it is all about and how it’ll deal with you.

Sorry, I may sound depressing at this very moment but it’s just my view, just another perspective that I want to share. Most of us and definitely the one’s who are reading this blog post will know that certainly they are in a better position than thousands and in fact millions out there and if you all were in their position, you perhaps wouldn’t be judging every other person for some reason, correct, plausible or stupid, who cares? But we all have an opinion that turns into a judgment which in turns loses its purpose. 

You my friends should know that the sole responsibility to lead your life lies with you. The onus is all on you. You are the leader of yourself, your destiny lies with you and your actions so just live it the way you want to. Don’t be a cynic because I was one once and some times I still am but I always move on from time to time.  Just don’t let anyone else dictate you or judge you. Get back at them every time you feel they’re judging you because they’re like you’re relatives from ‘Duur daraaz’ who show up once a year and say stuff just to make you feel sad , in fact next time when you feel they’re about to show up after carefully witnessing their “arriving pattern” over the years then tell them before hand that you’re going to have simple ‘daal’ instead of Biryani that day, coupled with on hand ‘juggats’ you learned from watching ‘Babu babraal’ stage shows so that you don’t ever have to see their stupid faces or have to listen to their stupid judgments, again.

So don’t care what other says, hold on to what you have most dear around you; the things and the people and just have fun and chill out for once. Be a hippie, smoke weed and live your life. If someone asks why you’re smoking so tell them you’re Rastafarian dude or dudette who’s just completing his or her religious obligation. So, you matter, you’re choices matter.  Just smile :D

P.s: This blog is dedicated to all my wonderful friends who're amazing. Small friend's circle i have and I love them so much.


P.s.s: Especially to a friend who goes 'bonkers' from time to time. This particular friend usually looks like this when shocked!